Daniel, a primary school teacher,
got married yesterday. As I didn't have normal school a few of us got a lift
out to Naagan, his bride Deborah’s village, to see the first part of the
celebrations.
Traditional village weddings begin
early in the morning so we arrived before sunrise. Villagers were not up yet
and all was quiet save for a few remaining goats and donkeys (most of the goats
and all of the camels have been taken
far away to find land for grazing). We wore our new dresses but were rather
cold.
We got to watch the sunrise
as I sipped coffee from my trusty flask.
As the sun came up, people began
to emerge from their homes. These children were intrigued to find a bunch of
white people so far out from Korr town.
Below is the home of the mother of
the bride. Deborah was waiting inside, as the bride normally stays inside for most
of the celebrations.
Milking goats for the morning cuppa whilst waiting for
the groom to arrive
Eventually we heard the chanting
and singing of the men as they approached, dressed in their finest warrior
outfits and painted in red ochre. They brought with them two sheep; one was
taken into the mother-in-law’s min and the other was taken to be slaughtered as
a symbol of the marriage agreement. The mother-in-law went over to the best man
and groom and took their shoes. They are supposed to go bare foot for four
days!
The second sheep was
slaughtered and special pieces of fat were presented to the bride’s family
inside the min. Daniel, the groom, wears the white sheet and John, one of my colleagues,
wears the blue.
Meanwhile the women arrive in
all their finery with the jangle of bells.
Here are the happy modern couple…apparently it is unusual for the bride to come out at this stage. Daniel and Deborah are on the left.
We then left, but the rest of
the day and night would be taken up with eating sheep, dancing and singing. The
happy couple will build a new house next to the bride’s mother. Traditionally newlyweds live there until the birth of their first child and then move to the
husband’s clan village. However, things are different for educated Rendille and
many traditional customs are not adhered to strictly. I think Daniel and
Deborah will move to Korr there where Daniel already has a house as they work
in or near town.
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